Recipe: Corn Dip

My name is Katie and I have a confession to make. I am obsessed with corn dip. That's right. I chose to publish a corn dip recipe versus a post about baby's breath. I told you that it was bad.

A few months back I filmed a wedding in Arkansas where one of the bridesmaids made a lunch spread for everyone to enjoy. I tried this corn dip and immediately asked for the recipe. I make it for all occasions. With that in mind I thought maybe readers would enjoy making this for their Super Bowl parties this weekend. My favorite types of recipes are ones that can be made a day or two in advance and still be yummy and fresh. I am the type of cook who just throws things into the bowl but I do have actual measurements to share. This recipe is adapted from here.

Here is what you need:

2 (11 oz.) cans of corn
1 (11 oz.) can of Mexi Corn
Green Onions
1/3 cup Miracle Whip and/or Mayo
1/3 cup Sour Cream
1/2 cup Shredded Cheese
Fritos

Directions:
1. Drain both cans of corn. I typically leave just a little juice in one of the cans. Dump both cans of corn into a large mixing bowl. You can go ahead and put it into the bowl you want to serve it in. It saves time on the clean up.
2. Chop the green onions.
3. Into the large mixing bowl dump and mix together the miracle whip, sour cream, green onions, cheese.
4. Refrigerate. You can serve it as but I like to refrigerate it for just a bit.
5. Get out the Fritos and enjoy!

Don't you love how simple this dish is? Drain, chop, dump and mix. This dip is always a hit! Other recipes add jalapeno peppers, lime juice, sugar, chili powder and salt and pepper.  Make it your own! Guess what one of my dishes at our Super Bowl party will be? Corn dip. How did you know? (wink)

33 by 30

Photo Source: Daniel Holman Studios

Lately I have become more and more aware of my actions. For many years I thought life was what you woke up to. I couldn't have been more wrong. Life is truly what you make it. Just think about it. Are you satisfied with all you have? Have you tried to make a difference? God has a plan for my life but I cannot follow his path if I am not listening or working as hard as I can.

About a year ago I started a list (my favorite) of things that I wanted to do before I turned 30. Some of these things may seem silly while some may be a stretch. Some I have completed while others may take years. I also know that throughout life experiences this list may change but these are some of my hearts desires. I want to travel. I want to help others. I want to grow as a person. Every morning when I wake up what am I doing with my day? The best part about having a blog is I get to document each step. I pray that I bless you with this blog, my portfolio and my spirit. What are you doing to live life to the fullest? Let the list love begin!

1. Own a tube of bright red lipstick and wear it to a nice party or wedding.

2. Run a half marathon. More on that here and here.

3. Start my own business. You can read more about that here.

4. Continue to grow my small business.

5. Be a mother.

6. Own a minivan.

7. Attend Charleston Wine and Food Festival.

8. Rescue another puppy.

9. Learn to play my ukulele.

10. Own a home.

11. Travel to New York for the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade.

12. Attend Bridal Week in New York.

13. Teach Rusty how to snow ski.

14. Spend one holiday serving others.

15. Own or Wear a pair of Louis Vuitton's for a special occasion.

16. Bungee Jump and/or Jump out of a Plane.

17. Take a spontaneous trip one weekend.

18. Drive the California Coast.

19. Be a published author.

20. Be an audience member for Live! with Kelly or Ellen.

21. Travel to Paris.

22. Spend one Christmas on vacation.

23. Celebrate our 5 year anniversary in Hawaii.

24. Be a wedding planner for one wedding.

25. Have one video featured on Style Me Pretty.

27. Move to a new state.  Texas it is. Read more on our adventures here.

28. Visit a Vineyard.

29. Teach an exercise class.

30. Sing in front of a live audience.

31. Be in a play. Small role or Lead role. Either works.

32. Meet John and Sherry from Young House Love. I adore them. I know we would be best friends.

33. Visit all 50 states.
Alabama, Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Hawaii, Idaho, Illinois, Indiana, Iowa, Kansas, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Mississippi, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia, Wisconsin, Wyoming.

Love Song Friday, Volume 38

The last few weeks on Love Song Friday we have been stuck in the 90's. Today I chose a song that has been played on the Bachelor lately. In no way is it because of the Bachelor. That show is getting a bit crazy! Actually, I could dedicate an entire post to the love fest that is the Bachelor.

Before we get to our wonderful song featured today let's take a look at this week's posts.

Monday: Troy and Sam's Wedding Day Highlight
Tuesday: Love in Hollywood
Wednesday: Wedding Dress Wednesday
Thursday: {Feature} Wedding Reports Blog
Friday: Q & A: Do We Really Need a Wedding Videographer?

Matt Nathanson's is one of my favorites. His way with words is amazing. Any man that can come up with the songs he does is going to be at the top of my list. Thank you for being charming and poetic Matt Nathanson. Happy Friday friends. I hope this weekend is full of love, laughter and new favorite memories. Smile!

Q & A: Do We Really Need a Videographer?

Welcome Friday and welcome friends. Hopefully you are anticipating another Q & A session. What's that? Oh yeah, I am excited you are here too. You are too kind!

Photo Source: Style Me Pretty

Today's question is one that I get asked a lot. Actually some people are afraid to ask me because of my profession. I will be brief and honest.

Q: Do we really need a videographer for our wedding?

Here's the thing, I know that wedding videography is still very new to a lot of brides and grooms. Some couples immediately book and don't turn back while others wait until the last minute and use what ever budget is left. Yes, some videographers are outrageously expensive and for what they are asking an hour long DVD does seems a bit silly. I get that. I was one of those brides. I chose to let a family member film our big day. We saved money and got to spend it elsewhere. With that being said, it was was the biggest mistake I made. Reason #1: My family seemed to misplace the footage. At this point I laugh about it because this is fitting for my family. Reason #2: By not having a videographer we do not have any real moments from our wedding. We do have wonderful photos but no live footage. We had a blast. We laughed. We cried. We danced. We toasted. We had the best night ever but have no video to show. None whatsoever.

I look at other wedding videos and am sad each time I think about how we missed out. I know I said I would keep it brief but I cannot stress the benefits of having a videographer. There are moments as a bride that you miss. A video captures it all. There are moments that you want to watch back. No worries if you have a video you can do that. There are moments that will forever make you smile and guess what? A video has that moment too. Do you really want to pass up the opportunity to have forever moments captured on film?

For more on why wedding videography is a fabulous decision and what to expect with a videographer read this posts here and here. See y'all in a bit for Love Song Friday!

{Feature} Wedding Reports Blog

Good day friends! A few weeks ago I started working on a guest post for Wedding Reports blog. Today it is up and raring to go. Check out my tips and ideas for building a great relationship with vendors. Show Jen and the Connecticut brides a little love today! Take a peek here.

Wedding Dress Wednesday

Put a red flower in a girls hair and I will go nuts! Reem Acra's Spring 2012 line is fabulous, absolutely fabulous. Brides can expect cap sleeves, sheer material, textures, empire waists and pure bliss. Reem Acra has taste like no other but is still daring and inventive. I love her gowns. I wanted to know more about her and began reading her biography. I was amazed! Check out how she got her start:

"While attending the American University of Beirut, Acra was discovered by a fashion editor. Captivated with the ornately embroidered silk organza gown Acra made from her mother’s dining room tablecloth and wore to a party, she instantly offered to host a fashion show for Acra that took place ten days later. Following the serendipitous encounter, Acra studied at The Fashion Institute of Technology in New York and its Paris counterpart at Esmod."

I love stories like this. Who would have thought a gown made from your mom's table cloth could be such a success? But that is exactly what Reem Acra is, a success. Enjoy my top picks!

Photo Source: Reem Acra

Which gown is your favorite?

Love in Hollywood

Celebrities. I have a confession. Ever since I was in high school I have been a tabloid junkie. I love E! News, US Magazine and Wetpaint. Yes, most people call that junk and I understand why. Sometimes I even roll my eyes at myself. It seems like lately all the headlines are about celebrity couples that are divorcing. Now I tread on this topic lightly because you never know the history of the relationship or their situation but marriage in Hollywood seems so short lived. Recently Kim Kardashian was married 72 days. 72 days. I don't think I even had all my thank you notes completed or wedding gifts put away in 72 days. Like I said who knows the real reason behind celebrity divorces?

One couple that have separated is Heidi Klum and Seal. When I saw this I was so sad. The sadness is in result to feeling like you know these people (durn tabloids) and the fact that this effects their whole family, kids included. We all know that it takes an effort for any relationship to work and thrive. Sometimes I wonder how stars view marriage? Do they really try to make it work? Do they try every type of possible solution before calling it quits? These may be questions that remained unanswered until I get that first sit down interview with Heidi.

I thought we could take a look back at my favorite couples that have parted ways and celebrate the ones who I hope never split up.

Wish They Were Still Together:

Brad + Jennifer

Photo Source: US Magazine

Nick + Jessica

Photo Source: US Magazine

Heidi + Seal

Photo Source: Radar Online

Hope They Last Forever:

Kelly + Mark

 Photo Source: US Magazine

Faith + Tim

 Photo Source: US Magazine

Jennifer + Ben

 Photo Source: US Magazine

Beyonce + Jay-Z

Photo Source: US Magazine

Katie + Rusty

Total joke but I thought it was funny!

I threw in this video just for fun...

Troy and Sam Wedding Day Highlight

When I first started Lovebird Productions my mind was set on the Arkansas bride. Having been in numerous Arkansas weddings and attended even more than I can count I wanted to appeal to that Natural State bride. The funny thing about life is that it never turns out how you plan it and many times I am so glad it doesn't.

Since we have moved to Texas I have learned so much. Not only am I meeting and building new relationships with vendors but I am trying to reach more Texas brides. This past October Sam contacted me about filming her December nuptials. I was beyond excited to be apart of a my first Texas wedding. It was also my first Catholic ceremony and it was beautiful. I am blessed to continue to grow this little business while meeting wonderful people along the way.

Sam and Troy are such a special couple. Sam was constantly smiling while Troy was cracking jokes. The two are a perfect fit! Their families were so kind. The wedding party was so hospitable and the dancing at the ceremony was amazing. I gave you a sneak peak of their choreographed family dance in the post here on Friday. Yeah, I want to join their family too. For more on Sam and Troy's wedding weekend recap check out this post here. Now how about a new highlight?

Like I mentioned this Texas wedding will always be memorable! From the chicken fried steak to the crazy dancing, Lovebird Productions was blessed. Take it away Sam and Troy....


Troy and Sam - Wedding Day + Ceremony + Reception Highlight - San Antonio, TX from Lovebird Productions on Vimeo.

Love Song Friday, Volume 37

Friday dance!! Yeah, I am dancing around the office. I cannot wait to share a new highlight with you next week. We are quickly aprroaching the one year mark for LB Productions. Can you believe it?\

One year of blogging. One year of editing. One year of running a small business. One year of brides. One year of a full heart! Have I mentioned how much I love my profession? I cannot wait to show you a few changes happening around here.

Let's recap this week:

Monday: How To Choose the Perfect Palette

Tuesday: Thank You for Being a Friend

Wednesday: Wedding Dress Wednesday

Thursday: Reception Idea: Thank You For Being a Friend

Friday: Q&A: We're Engaged. What do we do now?

I am giddy about Love Song Friday. I am always listening to Pandora's 90's Pop Radio. It plays songs that bring back fun memories. High School was fabulous friends. Let's carry on the memories of critter critter, Friday night football and dinner at Applebee's (my town was a bit small). Happy Friday!

Q & A: We're Engaged. What Do We Do Now?

Ahhh. Welcome Friday. Smell that? Yeah, that is the smell of the weekend. Enough small talk, we are all friends here. Let's dive in.

I wanted to share this video with you. This is a sneak peak for what I will be sharing next week. In December I was introduced to my first Texas wedding and let me tell you, it was SO much FUN! Every time I play back their footage I am amazed at how laid back the couple was, how fun their guests were and how much I love Texas. Take a look at this family dance:


We Are Family from Lovebird Productions on Vimeo.

Because doesn't every family have a choreographed dance ready for any party? Told you. It was awesome! Question time:

Q. We just got engaged. What do we do now?

This little diddy of a question is a VERY good one to ask. I promised to keep this brief and not a long post were I drag on and on with multiple points in bold font so that you don't forget them. <- The answer is nothing like that previous sentence. While I could make this a long post that is not what Friday Q & A is about.

1. Enjoy the moment. Don't try to start planning a mere four days after your engagement. Take your time. Be blissful.

2. Find a Venue. Selecting the venue helps set everything in motion. It helps with deciding decor, number of guests and more.

3. Select Your Date. This also goes along with finding the venue. Some venues have wide-open dates while others only have a few to choose from. Before you select your venue, make sure you have a few dates in mind.

4. Start Making the Guest List. Start gathering addresses. You will be so glad you started early!

5. Brainstorm/Make an Inspiration Board. Making an inspiration board or having a few magazine pages on hand help you know exactly what you want. This allows you to start gathering supplies, meeting with vendors and DIYing!

We will be back in just a bit with Love Song Friday! Lots of love!

Decor Idea: Cigar Box

A few weeks ago when my mother-in-law was in town we visited a fun restaurant/antique store called Red Rooster. I love browsing antiques and I came across something that I just couldn't pass up. I am now the proud owner a vintage cigar box. I am storing all my favorite earrings in the box and love sliding the box open and digging around for the right pair. Check out my $8 cigar box:

Sorry for the photo quality. Thank you though iPhone. Instagram makes my day brighter. While selecting my earrings yesterday I thought how fun it would be to incorporate my cigar box into a wedding. You could use the box to hold cards, store favors for guests, use as a centerpiece, place flowers in it and keep the rings safe. You could even hand out cigars as your wedding favor. The possibilities are endless! I love that their is wedding inspiration all around us.

I took to the web and found a few pictures of cigar boxes that were used throughout other brides weddings.

 Photo Source: Style Me Pretty

 Photo Source: Pinterest via Uploaded by User (Even though I bet the user doesn't understand how to credit actual sources)

Photo Source: Pinterest via Dream Book Design

What do you think about cigar boxes? Have you ever used them or thinking about using them for your big day? I enjoy how simple and inexpensive it is. Try browsing garage sales, any thrift store or the always popular Etsy. Cigar boxes it is!

Wedding Dress Wednesday

Hello Wednesday. Hello coffee. Hello emails. Hello social networking. Hello friends. Hello blog posts. Hello calendar. Hello project deadlines. I think that covers a majority of my day.

I did take time between editing to pick out a few dresses that I loved. Ladies, meet Lela Rose. Not only did I love their 2012 Spring Collection but their website was pretty and simple. When reading about Lela Rose she stated her clothing is designed to have a "whimsical twist" and I think that is the perfect way to describe these gowns. Let the eye candy begin:

Photo Source: Lela Rose

You guys know I love lace, as in a sick obsession. Imagine my delight when I saw gowns that not only had lace detailing but also a touch of sheer. Did y'all see that lace back on the first gown? I know. I wanted to try it on too! Heck, I am already married! Don't you love what a wedding gown does to you? They put a smile on your face!

Happy Wedding Dress Wednesday my friends!

Thank You for Being a Friend...

Photo Source: Golden Girls Wiki

What blog post is not going to be great when you start the title with the Golden Girls song and picture?

I do have a very busy next few days and will be a bit absent from Twitter and Facebook but I did want to stop in today and say a big whopping thank you. I mean it from the bottom of my heart. Sometimes I cannot believe how lucky I am to have people read this blog or watch a video of mine. Even though I blog about everything wedding it seems that my posts that are more personal resonate the best with you guys. With that being said today is all personal with no wedding business mixed in.

I know that I thank you all periodically on posts but today you get a full post all to your special selves. Now on to my heartfelt love.

1. Thank you for your words. Your words encourage me, push me and drive me. I would not be where I am today without your advice and sweet words.

2. Thank you for your readership. When I decided to do wedding videography it just didn't feel like enough. I knew that I wanted to add something more and that turned out to be blogging. In the past ten months that I have been writing I have learned so much and that is because of you. I am amazed at the numbers this blog has seen. I am impressed by your loyalty to commenting, emailing and passing along my posts to other brides and woman. Thank you for that.

3. Thank you to the TWIPS. This community of business minded women is my lifesaver. I truly mean that. I cannot remember how I even came across this group but God knew I needed them. They have inspired me with their hard work and special skills, shown me leadership and taught me how to have my own voice. I am grateful everyday for your love and support ladies. Y'all are such a strong foundation and support system for this blog. You are my blessing.

4. Thank you to my wonderful brides. This thank you means the most. You all are the greatest gift I have been given. I know 100% that you all are why I am loving what I do today. Each of you have a special place in my heart. Thank you for your emails, reviews, critiques, encouragement and mostly thank you for believing in me. Many of you have taken a chance with me and I cannot express how much you mean to me. You all are a gift and I treasure your wedding and remember every detail about your special day. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

5. Thank you to my friends and family. I am who I am today because of your wisdom and love. I am blessed to be surrounded by you. I am blessed to have you in my life. I am blessed. Bottom line.

6. Lastly, thank you to my husband. Rusty life is so much sweeter with you in it. Thank you for listening to me. Thank you for wanting to grow this business with me. Thank you for never letting me give up. Thank you for making me laugh. Thank you for wiping away the tears. Thank you for loving me. Your love is....breathtaking. I love you Rusty and I promise to continue thanking God for you every. single. day. You have my heart forever.

Sorry to be sappy but I really have a full heart today, an overflowing heart. You all are such a treasure. I promise to keep writing, editing and being the voice of LBP.

Until tomorrow....

How to Choose the Perfect Color Palette

I have to be honest. I know that I am all smiles and glittery rainbows over here but choosing my color palette for my wedding was beyond hard for me. I would look at a magazine and say, "Oooooo! I want those colors" and then ten minutes later stroll through a craft store and decided on a totally new palette. The venue selection came easy. The cake tasting was literally cake. But deciding whether to go with magenta or purple was hard. Just thinking about makes my throat close up and I am starting to have a twitch in my right eye.

Your color palette plays a big role in your wedding. Color adds contrast and dynamic while influencing your invitations, decor, bouquets, bridesmaid dresses, groomsmen attire, accessories, cake and more! Have no fear because I have got a few tips and the perfect resources for picking the color palette of your wedding dreams.

Photo Source: The Perfect Palette

1. Remember your surroundings. Always keep in mind your venue. I got married outside at the beginning of fall. I didn't want my wedding colors to fight the changing leaves in the trees so I stuck with a fall color palette that suited my taste. If you are having your reception inside take notice of the carpet and drapes. These things do not have to dictate your color selection but keep them in mind. You want your decor and palette to compliment each other.

2. What atmosphere are you creating? If you want a romantic wedding soft hues are the way to go while bright, eye catching colors create drama and depth. Colors aid in setting the tone. Make sure the brightness or softness of your palette corresponds with the atmosphere you are wanting guests to feel.

3. Forget the rules. There is no bridal rule that you have to pick only two colors to plan your decor around. If you want two main colors with a few additional hues mixed in then go for it. This is your wedding and your chance to pick colors that make you smile.

I thought I would also point you to the best resources to help you choose the color(s) of your wedding dreams.

1. The Perfect Palette. Chrissy is a genius! That sentence is a big under statement to how talented she really is. She works one-on-one with brides to create the perfect color palette. Browse her site by color or palettes. She has tons of inspiration! You can visit her site by clicking here.

2. Inspiration Boards. I would encourage every single bride to create an inspiration board for their wedding. An inspiration board of your color palette gives you a better idea of ways to incorporate color throughout your wedding. It also helps when selecting other aspects of your wedding like decor, lighting, flowers and more.

3. Wedding Blogs and Websites. I cannot get enough of bridal blogs these days hence why I started my own. Blogs are full of color inspiration. Once you pick your colors, go back and look the blogs and websites over again. They have DIY projects, centerpiece ideas, floral inspiration and wedding gowns galore.

4. Bridal/Fashion Magazines. When I got married my matron of honor gave me a notebook with plastic covers. I would tear out what I liked and keep it filed in my notebook. This was also in the days before Pinterest. Yeah, life use to exist before Pinterest. Magazines both bridal and fashion have large amount of influence and inspiration. Get to it!

5. Paint Swatches. I recommend this! Visit your local hardware store and browse the paint swatches. They are free and perfect to carry around when wedding planning.

6. Craft Stores. Once I decided on my colors I went to Michael's (heaven on earth) and bought ribbon spools for my mom and I. We always had the exact colors in our purse and could pull them out to match up other items. It was a lifesaver considering we lived on two different sides of Arkansas while planning the wedding.

7. Pinterest. Duh! Pin it. Pinterest amazes me. Need an invite? Email me or comment below and I will send you one.

I hope that these things give you a calm outlet when it comes to picking out your wedding colors. You have inspiration all around you! Have you started looking for your colors? Do you have any fun plans for Martin Luther King Day?

Love Song Friday, Volume 36

Hi friends! I am so glad that you decided to stop over twice today and see what we have going on.

This week we covered...

Monday: Monday Inspiration

Tuesday: Recipe: Snickers Pie

Wednesday: Wedding Dress Wednesday

Thursday: Tips for Conquering Thank You Notes

Friday: Q & A: How Did You Know?

Now were taking it back to the old school cause I'm an old fool whose so cool. Thank you Tag Team for your meaningful lyrics. But we are going down memory lane with a song by Mariah Carey. Who all remembers Fantasy? Mariah in roller blades. Sigh...thank you 1995!

Happy weekend and turn those speakers up!

Q & A: How Did You Know?

It is me again. Let's give a warm welcome to Friday and another whopping round Q & A with little ole me. Simmer down friends! I know we are all excited. And picture one...

Q: How did you know Rusty was the one?

A. Ahhh...a question that I would be happy to answer.

This picture is how I knew he was the one. See below.

...And this one.

Considering these were taken after we were married they really don't count but I do have the answer. My answer may sound silly but it just worked. When Rusty and I started dating we had so much fun together and we still do. Rusty and I met as strangers and there was no pressure to start a relationship or make things work. We met, we had a blast, he asked for my number, a few days later he started texting and calling, he asked me to hang out in a group setting, we did the first date thing not long after and like I mentioned before kept having fun.

With Rusty I never found myself questioning were we stood. We dated for almost a month and saw each other a lot and in that time. I never thought when is he going to ask me to be his girlfriend? We were just enjoying each other. I know when you are mid 20's it is weird to define a relationship. One of my friends asked him if we were exclusive (boyfriend and girlfriend). A few days later he asked me what I thought, we talked, agreed we wanted to be a couple and he asked me to be his gal. I never worried about were I stood with him or what are we doing next? This relationship unlike others was a breath of fresh air. Other relationships were rocky or I felt like I was playing a game to get the guys attention. Not with Rusty. He has always been honest with me about his feelings. Like I said before, it just worked.

It wasn't until a four or five months into our relationship that I knew I wanted to marry him. I told Rusty before we ever said I love you's that the next man I said those three words to would be the one I was going to marry. I haven't been in love a lot but I know how sacred those words are. I didn't want to throw them around and I gave Rusty fair warning that if he expressed those feelings to make sure he was in it for the long haul. I can remember the look on his face when I told him. He showed a bit of fear because at that time he didn't know if he wanted to get married to me or not! haha We were just having a good time! About two months later he did tell me he loved me and I can remember the moment. It still makes my heart swell up with love! From then on we discussed marriage a few times plus reaffirmed already discussed family, religious, financial values and dreams.

Do not get me wrong, we have had hard times but it was how we handled them and made our relationship stronger. With Rusty I have never felt like I was compromising my values or self worth to be with him. He builds me up, encourages me, believes in me, loves me and more importantly he is my best friend. I couldn't ask for a better husband to share my life with.

And that ladies and gents is how I knew that I would marry Rusty. He continues to amaze me and makes life sweeter. He is a man worth keeping around ;)

So ladies my best advice to you is just let it happen. If the relationship isn't satisfying or it seems too complicated chances are he isn't the man of your dreams. The man of your dreams will make you feel complete. (Corny but true) You will always have to work at relationships but if it is more work than fun, cut your losses. Be yourself and the rest will fall into place. I always say a woman cannot be happy in a relationship until she is happy with herself. Good luck!

Tips for Conquering Thank You Notes

Photo Source: Pinterest via Etsy

You are newly engaged, working full-time, planning your dream wedding and your first shower is right around the corner. With each shower you will be given amazing gifts but what about those thank you notes? Have no fear. I promise that you can tackle all your thank you's in a timely manner while making them sincere.

Here are a few tips to keeping things organized and getting those notes completed quickly:

1. Have one notebook that keeps record of ALL your wedding/shower gifts. One of the things I did when my best friend got engaged was to purchase a spiral notebook. We wrote down every gift she ever received in that notebook whether she got it in the mail or from a shower. She was able to keep track of each gift and check them off as she completed her thank you notes. When I got married she passed the notebook on to me and I got to add my gifts. It was kind of special for us and we can pass the notebook on to our little girls one day. Having one notebook keeps your gift count in one place and it also fits in your purse or bag.

2. Have guests write down their address on an envelope as they sign in. At each of my showers I skipped the traditional guest book and had guests sign a canvas with paint pins. At my church shower the hostesses had a great idea and left a stack of envelopes that corresponded with my thank you notes lying out. As guests signed my canvas they also took one envelope and wrote their address on it. It was such a great idea and I couldn't believe that I hadn't thought of it before. When it came time to write that set of thank you notes I didn't have to worry about finding addresses or writing them on each envelope. It was a lifesaver!

3. Make it easier by printing fun labels. With a long list of thank you notes make everything easier. Print out fun labels with your address on them. This saves time and you do not have to rewrite your address 500 times. This is also a creative outlet. Don't laugh! How many times do you get stressed or overwhelmed? Take 10 minutes to make fun labels or print off a few pictures to slip into the thank you note envelopes of those closest to you. Keep one area in your house or apartment strictly for thank you note writing. You will be able to see what needs to be accomplished plus have an area that is free from distraction. Make things easier when it comes to writing sweet messages.

4. Enlist the help of others when it comes to addresses and saying thanks. I personally wrote each thank you note myself. I wanted to make them special and I might have lost a bet to my husband that left me addressing each note but some people ask bridesmaids and friends for help. I think it is personal preference but you should always be aware of who gave you a gift. You do not necessarily need to know every gift you were given and whom it was from but you do need to know who took time to purchase you a gift and send it to you. This helps when you pass them in the grocery store you can also say thank you there. If you do not feel comfortable with someone writing them ask friends to look up addresses and put them on envelopes.

5. Start now. This is my best piece of advice. You may think I have plenty of time after the wedding but trust me you will not want to be working on thank you notes right after you get married. Also you will get a lot of gifts at the wedding, which only adds to your growing list. Once you finish one shower start on the thank you notes. Make it a goal to complete one set of thank you notes before you go onto your next shower. Keep a bag of them with you in your purse so when you have ten minutes waiting at the doctors office you can finish two or when you have a few extra minutes on your lunch break you can knock out five notes. Start now and finish early! I promise it will be worth it.

How are you handling thank you notes? Do you have any other suggestions or tips for other brides? Feel free to share or comment below.

Wedding Dress Wednesday

Welcome to Wedding Dress Wednesday or as I like to call it picture overload day. Yeah, there are a lot of pictures in this post today. Not much talking...just pictures.

Ever look at gowns and just think these dresses speak for themselves? Today I am featuring those types of gowns/designer. As I was looking through the Watters Bridal Collection I liked every single gown. I loved the detailing, lace, styling, tulle, hem lines and more importantly the action shots. By action shots I mean photos were they take the dress away from the traditional white background and out into the sunshine. Call me crazy but these photos are what appeal to me. I also am grateful for a designer who takes the bride and completely styles her from top to bottom. Hair, makeup, jewels, veils, everything that makes today's modern bride.

I promise to quit blabbing and let you ogle the goodies! I am giving you the biggie size look at these babies because they deserve it. Let's get to it:

Photo Source: Style Flavia

 Photo Source: Style Jeanne

The back of this dress is to die for.

Photo Source:  Style Diana

Photo Source: Style Nina

Photo Source: Style San Fransico

Photo Source: Style Malibu

Photo Source: Style Sydney

I told y'all. I didn't need to do any talking for this post. Thank goodness for days of gorgeous gowns!

Recipe: Snickers Pie

This past holiday season I had a house full of family. Rusty and I have agreed that we want only two children but there is something about cooking for a big group that makes me happy. I love when everyone belly's up to our dining room table and passes each dish around. I think I get it from my Italian grandmother. Turning down her food is like telling her you don't like her. My grandmother fixes full course meals for lunch and don't even get me started on her appetizer table. Yeah, a whole table of appetizers to pick from before you even get to the main course. Perfection!

Over Christmas and the week following I got to make casseroles, bake a ham, whip up pies and cookies plus use my holiday dishes and platters. One of the new recipes that I tried was Snickers Pie. My family ate the pie in about 24 hours. Following dinner we had it for dessert then again a few hours later after some card games and Catch Phrase. We might have snacked on it before lunch the next day. Just maybe. Once you have a bite of this pie you will understand the need to eat it before you even get to lunch.

Photo Source: Make Life Delicious

I adapted the recipe from Food.com and the best part about this recipe is it is SO easy. Here is what you need:

- 4 ounces cream cheese, softened
- 3/4 cup powdered sugar
- 1/4 cup creamy peanut butter (It says you can use crunchy but I am not a fan of crunchy peanut butter.)
- 1 1/2 regular sized Snickers candy bars, chopped (I used two full bars.)
- 8 ounces Cool Whip, thawed
- 1 chocolate cookie pie crust (You can also use graham cracker crust. I bought mine at the store but you can also make a quick crust with melted butter, fine graham crust or crushed pretzels.)

Directions:

1. In a large mixing bowl, beat cream cheese, sugar and peanut butter until creamy. (I used my Kitchen Aid but you can mix it in a large bowl too.)

2. Stir in chopped candy bars.

3. Gently fold in the Cool Whip just until mixed.

4. Pour into crust and refrigerate overnight. If you are making it a few hours before you serve it place it in the freezer.

5. Enjoy!

For the original recipe click here. Try adding chopped snickers to garnish the top. You can also make a caramel or chocolate design on top. Whip cream works too! Who is going to make Snickers Pie now?

Monday Inspiration

Photo Source: Pinterest via Etsy

I am so glad that you are here today. Like really happy to see you. I know I say this a lot but I am grateful for you and the fact that you read this blog.

This past week was difficult but the time with family and friends was a blessing. I am grateful for this outlet and the fact that I can share weddings, happy moments and my heart.

I wanted to take the time to encourage you all today. You all are always complimenting or lifting me up so I thought I would return the favor. I want to push you to make the most of today and every day. Life goes by in the blink of an eye (corny but true) and you only get this moment, this day. What are you doing with it? Take the time to call a friend you haven't spoken to in a while. Make time for dinner around the table with your family. Stop obsessing over cluttered closets or growing to-do lists and spend time cuddling your loved ones or taking a walk around the block. Turn your phone off and shut down the social networking for a bit. Holds hands and share laughter. You will be so glad you did it.

Today is what you have been given so what are you doing to make it the best? You deserve the happiest of days friends!

Love Song Friday, Volume 35

I need to start this post with a shout out to two of my favorites teams that are playing bowl games today and Sunday. Woo Pig Sooie to my amazing Razorbacks and Howl Yes! to my Alma Mater, Arkansas State University. I am really sad to see college football wrapping up but am already looking forward to next season.

This week we dominated on LBP. Let's take a look-see...

Monday: What To Look for in a Videographer

Tuesday: Vineyard Dreams Inspiration Board

Wednesday: Wedding Dress Wednesday with Jim Hjelm

Thursday: DIY Paper Lanterns (One of my favorite posts)

Friday: Q & A: Will It Ever Change?

The song for today melts my heart. If I ever audition for American Idol I am going to sing this song at the top of my lungs for J.lo and Randy Jackson will say "Welcome to Hollyqood" while Steven Tyler ogles my goodies because that is what Steven Tyler does. I chose Glee's version of Fleetwood Mac's Songbird.

I leave you with these words:

And the songbirds are singing like they know the score.
And I love you, I love you, I love you like never before.

Q & A: Will It Ever Change?

Happy Friday lovebirds! You made it to the final work day. I have had a fun week here on LBP. I got a lot accomplished and with that my list grew even longer. That is how it goes though...

Today's Q & A is something that I have been asked or given advice on before. This session is honesty at its finest.

Q: I love my significant other. We are recently engaged but we do have some issues. I will not go into full detail but there are things he does that I do not like. I want a future with him but things are very hard at times. What do I do?

A. If you want a sugar coated answer look elsewhere. I am going to be 1000% honest with you. Marriage is hard. Marriage is not what you see in movies. Marriage takes work...everyday. I love my husband and more than not we are laughing and loving one another but there are times when we argue or disagree. Those times and the issues that cause those arguments are to help you grow together. I cannot tell you the number of times I have told friends this statement and ladies hear me loud and clear: If there are problems now, there will be problems once you are married.  Marriage does not make serious issues go away. If your guy tells little white lies and it drives you crazy. Guess what? He is going to do it after you are married. If your guy spends too much money on certain things. Guess what? He is going to continue that habit after he is married.

Serious issues between you and your boyfriend or fiance need to be addressed. Remember this man is going to be your partner for years to come plus the father of your children. You need to be honest with him in a gentle way. If there are problems that can not be changed with a heart-to-heart talk and encouragement seek other help. Go to counseling, seek advice from a couple you both admire or friends who remain neutral. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. My mom told me that some mornings you will wake up and have to make an effort to be a good wife while other days it comes naturally.

With all this being said I do not want to discourage you from marriage. I LOVE being a wife and best friend to my husband. We have the best time together and compliment each other so well. When we do have spats or issues we talk things through and resolve them to benefit our family. Forget being selfish once you are married because you become one unit. I am very grateful for my husband and the love we have for each other. Marriage is sacrifice, compromise, work but more importantly a blessing.

Make the most of your relationship. Address issues when they arise (in a helpful way), use those disagreements to build your relationship and continue to love one another just like you promised.

I hope this post helps and encourages you! Married life is so much fun!

DIY Paper Lantern

Photo Source: Style Me Pretty

Photo Source: Pinterest via Wedding-Paradise

Lately I have been a big fan of lighting. I love an outdoor reception with tons of lights. Whether it is a strand of lights, candles or paper lanterns, lights tend to add a certain atmosphere of excitement and fun to any party. I saw these paper lanterns and thought we could totally DIY those.

Here's what you need:

Paper Sacks (Tan or White)

Tea Lights or Flame less Candles

X-acto knife

Printed Design or Stamp

Cardboard

Pencil

Matches or Lighter (preferably with a longer length)

Directions:

1. Before you start making your paper lantern print out a design onto a piece of computer paper. This design is for the outside of the bag. Cut a square around the design and tape it to the inside center of the bag.

2. Using your pencil trace the design on the front of the bag. The bag is light enough that the design shows through. You can also make the design double sided if you want a design on both sides of the bag.

3. Insert the cardboard in the middle of the bag and trace the design with the X-acto knife. If you are wanting to have a double sided bag skip the cardboard. The cardboard insures that the bag is one sided with a design.

4. Place tea light into the bag and light.

5. Enjoy this pretty DIY.

You can also try hanging the lights with wire or using string lights. These lanterns are perfect for showers, outdoor events, cookouts and parties. I also love them during the holidays.